I am amazed how some family members can treat others like shit and not blink an eye. Or come right out and lie to your face. It is no secret how messed up my family is but when something bad happens we tend to always show up and represent no matter what. We make the calls and make sure everyone knows what the hell is going on. I know what Uncle Paul meant to me and I know what he meant to my siblings and that is why we made sure everyone knew what and when and where. I asked a cousin specifically if another cousin (her sister) knew and she looked me in the eyes and said yes. Only for me to find out that she didn't know. I guess I should have been more specific when I asked the question, but I thought she understood what I was talking about. I didn't mean did she know Uncle Paul passed away, I meant that and did she know when the arrangements were. That is me, thinking that others think the way I do and put shit away in a family time of crisis. Just like us I know that it would have meant the world to her to be able to say good bye to Uncle Paul, but her so called siblings and mother, made sure that that didn't happen. One thing I do know is that Uncle Paul seen first hand how this family acts and he couldn't believe it. So with everything these days, I have to say one of these days they will get paid back, I may not see it, but it will happen and all I can say is you deserve whatever comes your way.
